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"Abuse Is about Control!"

...a Holiday e-Insight

From the desk of Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D.

Friday September 12, 2025

 

Dear Friend,

The holidays bring out a lot of family power struggles. If you are in one, this may help...

Abuse is about control. Violence may be a manifestation of domestic abuse, but domestic abuse is fundamentally about control.

...and the perpetrator (that is the abuser) can't bear to be out of control.

When the perpetrator feels he/she is losing his/her grip, violence (violations) will escalate so as to regain control.

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Excerpt from Keynote Speech "The Most Dangerous Myths about Family Violence," by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D. For an audio clip from this speech, visit domestic violence speeches

 

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It’s an excellent tool for assessing domestic violence.” Teresa Nirider, RN, Public Health Nurse, WY Department of Health, Family Nurse Partnership Program.

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Seeing the subtle violations helped me recognize what drives his verbal abuse." S.A., San Diego, CA

 

May there be peace and well being for you and yours.

Kindest regards,

Jeanne King, Ph.D.
Psychologist, Author, Speaker

www.DrJeanneKing.com

 

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